Dating is originally the best time to upgrade the relationship with a girl, but after the first date, many boys find that the girl suddenly becomes very cold and even chats become indifferent. What is the reason? What?

1. What are the reasons why girls become cold after a date?

1. Dating Disappointing girls with their performance

Some boys may perform well in online chatting, so that they can get girls to agree to date. But when it came to dating offline, the performance was not satisfactory. Let the girls feel disappointed.

For example, if you spend a certain amount of time chatting online to think about how to reply to a girl, accumulate some jokes, or spend some time chatting with a woman, you can have a good conversation with a woman; however, face-to-face chatting in person will not affect the conversation. What women feel is not like online chatting, which mainly comes from text, pictures, expressions, etc., but is more complex, such as a man’s voice, tone, facial expressions, body language, eyes, grasp of the rhythm of the chat, and emotions during the chat grasp and guide, etc.

Such a contrast will cause a girl to lose interest in you and start to become cold after dating.

2. Improper behavior during a date

Some boys think that when a girl agrees to a date, she accepts them. So I acted very casually during the date, said some things I shouldn't have said, and done some things I shouldn't have done, and left a bad impression on the girl.

After this date, the girl will naturally become cold. This is to remind the boy to take the initiative to reflect on himself.

2. How to make girls who are cold after dating become enthusiastic again

　1. Reduce contact and weaken girls Bad emotions

You must know that after the first date, a woman's attitude toward a man often changes in two ways: more positive or more negative. After all, the relationship between men and women is like sailing against the current. If you don't advance, you will retreat.

If you have strong comprehensive strength in all aspects and have the skills and experience to attract women, if you do well and bring women happiness and even the experience of love during the dating process, women will naturally be attracted to you. Will have a better impression of you.

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If dating has some negative effects on women, reveals too much ambition to girls, makes the dating process awkward, etc., such negative emotions may have negative effects on women at the time or within a short period of time after the date. It has a relatively large impact. As time goes by, such unpleasant emotions will gradually weaken. This will help women weaken your bad impression in their minds, thus providing you with new opportunities to win.to her.

2. Strengthen inner construction and believe in more possibilities

Nothing is impossible , especially in relationships, but there are many men who have a glassy heart. After chasing a woman for a while, they can’t catch her, or the other party’s response to him is not good enough, and then they give up or simply delete the woman’s contact information. This kind of thing Men deserve to be dicks for the rest of their lives.

Why do you have a chance to get a woman who is temporarily impossible for you in the emotional world?

①A woman’s bad feedback and emotions towards you are only temporary

It’s hard for people to hold grudges and dwell on negative things, especially women. Many women can’t even remember English words, let alone their bad behaviors and impressions of you.

　②Your rookie status is only temporary

If you are too weak to attract women, face your situation, and then learn and change to improve your ability to attract women. ability.

　③Don’t give up easily, let alone compromise easily

When pursuing a woman and the other party’s feedback is not good, never give up, but don’t regard the other party as the only choice. In the emotional world, everyone has the right to choose. If the other person doesn't choose you, respect her choice. If you like her, continue to like her, but you are not a loser. You can't live without that woman, so face life more positively. Getting to know other women or not trapping yourself in this one woman is the attitude an attractive man should have, and once you do this, you will be more attractive to women.