Girls naturally care about details. Whether you are chatting or dating when chasing girls, details are very crucial. So what details should you pay attention to when going on a date with a girl?
1. Consideration
Consideration is a necessary detail for a man to pursue a girl, and it is also what girls care about most. If you can help her carry things when you are on a date, hold an umbrella for her no matter it is sunny or raining, and when ordering food, proactively ask the girl what she likes to eat and what she doesn’t like, etc., then you will definitely make her happy. The favorability of girls is doubled.
2. Opinion
The opinion we are talking about here is not domineering, but letting girls make decisions for you. When it's time, make up your mind quickly and don't hesitate. Of course, you should also consult girls for their opinions before making up your mind. After all, this is the most basic gentlemanly behavior.
3. The details of eating
Food is the most important part of the name. You definitely can’t skip the eating part of a date, but did you know? There are many things that can make a girl feel better during a meal. Details, such as:
1. Take the initiative to invite a meal
You must know that girls are generally passive. Even if they are hungry, they generally will not take the initiative to tell you "I am hungry". Therefore, when you are shopping or playing with a girl and it is already dinner time, then you should take the initiative to take the girl to dinner and eat delicious food.
2. Ordering
Usually when ordering, if you don’t know a girl’s taste, ask As for what girls like to eat, girls’ answers are almost always yes, anything is fine. At this time, as mentioned above, don’t hesitate, just decide the menu yourself and show your opinion. If you keep hesitating and pushing back and forth, it may seem polite to you, but in reality it will only embarrass the other person. Of course, the dishes you decide on should not include anything too spicy or sticky, as this may ruin the atmosphere between you.
3. Eating pictures
Please note that you are on a date and not eating alone at home, so be careful not to smack your mouth when eating. Don’t be anxious. You can chat while eating. Learn more about the girls or comment on the dishes.
4. Don’t eat nothing, or be too cautious to say you are full. If you don’t eat much yourself, then girls will definitely not have an appetite, that’s for sure. Girls usually like boys who have a strong appetite, which is a sign of happiness.
4. Chat
In fact, the process of communication between people is like this:
1. Raise the topic to the other party (question)
2. The other party answers the question
3. Responds
4. Continues to ask questions
5. Delays the topic
Chatting during a date The same is true, we usually start with a question, and then wait for the other party to answer, then we continue the topic or choose to skip and continue asking questions. So if you want to have a good chat, asking questions is a key point.
In fact, questions are also divided into good questions and bad questions:
A bad question, Let the other person give you only two answers: yes or no. Such questions will only bring your topic to an end and cannot be extended.
For example: Did you watch XX movie yesterday?
In this way, you can only let the other party reply whether you watched it or not.
As for a good question? You can ask "What do you think of XXX movies?" This will give the other party a space to think and share more things. This is a good way to ask.
