Sometimes life is a joke. When a man has youth, he has nothing to face the person he likes; when it is time for a man to start a family and start a business, he has lost his most beautiful years! At this time, people around him seem to be saying: You’re not young anymore, it’s time to find someone to go on a blind date with!

So many boys who have never even been in love are forced to embark on the road of blind date. They don’t know how to date a girl, let alone how to date. Chatting on a blind date is exactly what many men urgently need to solve when dating.

1. Blind date chat: self-introduction

The first time you meet or chat with your date , usually you need a simple self-introduction to let the other person know you and get to know you briefly.

When introducing yourself, you can actually make some topic preparations. For example, when talking about your hobbies, you can chat and interact with girls - I usually like singing, do you like singing?< /p>

When introducing yourself, don’t be too formal. This can easily cause the chat atmosphere to become awkward, tense, serious, etc.

Generally speaking, don’t introduce yourself for too long, as it will appear that you are too long-winded; but if you think what you are saying is interesting and the girl is interested in you, you can just follow the introduction. Go on...

And extend to topic areas that interest you both.

2. Dating and Chatting: Familiar Topics

When I first started dating a girl, because I didn’t control the girl’s personality and emotions accurately + you just met each other, so chatting Just don’t talk about too in-depth topics or touch privacy boundaries.

For example, as soon as we get started, we talk about life and ideals with the girl. Without even saying a few words, we ask the girl on the blind date how many boyfriends she has had.

When you first start chatting with girls on a blind date, men can choose some relaxed topics, such as the recent weather, news, interesting things they have encountered, sharing your status, etc.

In this process, you can slowly explore the girl's personality, preferences, and temper, and you can also understand each other better.

3. Dating and chatting: emotional resonance

Girls hate chatting with straight men because of straight men No more emotional resonance in chatting!

When a girl says her aunt is here, the straight guy says drink more hot water; when a girl says she has a cold, the straight guy says go see a doctor!

Therefore, when chatting with a girl on a blind date, you must always maintain emotional resonance with the girl, so that the girl can like the feeling of chatting with you, so you must pay attention to the emotions of the girl on a blind date instead of ignoring her emotional feelings.

Make the girl on a blind date feel that you understand her very well, and then she will slowly develop a liking for you.

4. Chatting on a blind date: preparation for chat

Many men are unprepared when chatting with a girl on a blind date. They just suddenly remember that they haven’t chatted with a girl on a blind date for a long time, and then run away quickly. Go and say hello: Are you there?

The girl replied, "Yes," and then nothing happened.

When chatting with an unfamiliar blind date, you must be prepared to chat, so that the chat can develop well and put the girl in a good mood.

These preparations include: multiple chat topics, the extensibility of the chat direction, the interweaving of modal particles, emotional expressions, timely compliments, humorous expressions...

5. Blind Date Chat: Deepening of Emotions

When you are getting closer and closer to the girl you are dating, you must [timely] Seize the girl's interest period in you!

This period is very short (the specific time varies depending on your attraction). When the girl has passed the interest period and you have not developed any relationship with her, then You probably won't stand a chance.

Seize the opportunity and be nice to the girl - praise her, care about her, help her, give her gifts to warm her; be ambiguous with the girl - verbal teasing, flirtatious words, physical touch...

Of course, all of this requires finding an entry point, which is the [interest period] of the blind date girl in you!