It is said that when chasing girls, you should not expose your needs too much. Don't chat with girls every day when you have nothing to do. This will make you look like you have nothing to do all day long, and girls may also get bored of you. Even if you are satisfied with a girl after your first date, you still have to be patient and contact her later. So after your first date with a girl, how long is the best time to contact her again?
1. Greet the girl after you get home
No matter whether you are satisfied with the first date with the girl or not, you should greet the girl after she gets home. One is to express to the girl that you care about her. Your care and respect, one also experienced your gentlemanly demeanor. In addition, if you want to continue with the girl, then set up a date with the girl today. For example, the hot pot restaurant today tastes good, but the environment is a bit noisy. Next time I will take you to another XXX restaurant to ensure your satisfaction. (While reminiscing about the date, make arrangements for the next one). If you have a general impression of a girl, then simply ask her if she has arrived home and just pay attention to safety.
Second, contact her again the next day
Some people also think that after the first date with a girl, it is best to contact her again. It is best to contact you again the next day. This will give both parties time to think and decide whether to continue. Because if you contact a girl directly after the first date and ask her how she feels about you, it will easily arouse her resentment. Girls may not be sure of their thoughts yet and want to ask friends or besties for their opinions, etc. Therefore, boys must not rush to disturb girls at this critical moment. You can send a greeting message to the girl the next day. If the girl replies to you in time, it means that there is still a possibility for you to go on. If the girl doesn't make any move for a long time, it's probably the end of your relationship.
3. Contact before the next date
In fact, compared to contacting girls on WeChat, in real life If you date and get along with a girl more often, your relationship will grow much faster. So after your first date with a girl, you can definitely contact her before your next date. If a girl agrees to your invitation, it means that she also wants to develop further with you. When you meet, you can give the other person some cute little gifts, preferably ones that girls won’t reject. It would be best if you could find out about her interests and hobbies, so that you can arrange some details of the date from her perspective. Avoid getting into a situation where you are embarrassed or have nothing to say. Greatly increase girls' favorability towards themselves. If a girl rejects your invitation, you will know what she means to you.
In fact, the interaction with a girl after the first date is very important. Sometimes you may not perform well on the first date. You can also change her opinion of you when you contact a girl later or during a date.So it doesn’t matter if you screw up on the first date, as long as the girl is still willing to chat with you and go on a date with you, then there’s still a chance.