Under normal circumstances, a girl will only use two dates to test whether a boy is suitable for being friends or falling in love. So if you screw up on the first date and it’s still the same on the second date, then your relationship is basically broken. It fell through. So how can a girl feel happy and not tired on the second date?
1. Invitation
Correct To make an invitation, you should first create emotions through chatting and understand the girl's status, and wait until she becomes interested in you before making an invitation. If you know that a girl is very interested in you, you can directly try to invite her. If you are not sure, you can make the invitation vague first.
For example:
Female: It’s so late and I just got off work
Male: How about I treat you to a drink
Female: Forget it, I don’t want to do anything today
Male: How about tomorrow?
The mistake in this invitation is that I didn’t pay attention to the girl’s status, forced the invitation, and was rejected later. Stalking.
The correct operation should be like this:
Female: I just got off work so late
Male: Go have a cup of coffee to rest and reward yourself.
Female: Forget it, I don’t want to move today
Male: When you are free someday, the handsome guy will go drink coffee with you
2. Preparation
There are three things you need to prepare before a date: time, place, and event.
It is best to set the date after three o'clock in the afternoon or around seven o'clock in the evening. Because the time is too early, the girl may not be willing to get up early, which may also affect her future dating status, while being too late will make the girl feel insecure.
Then try to take the girl to some quiet places, such as coffee shops and dessert shops, places suitable for chatting. Of course, the most important thing is to decide based on the girl’s hobbies. For example, if the girl likes to eat, you can go to a gourmet restaurant.
In addition, you must arrange several more date locations, firstly, to prevent emergencies from happening, and secondly, do not stay at each location for too long. The appointment time at each location should not exceed two hours as much as possible to facilitate transition. Everything around you is changing, which will make the girl focus on you. New scenes will bring new topics, and you can let the girl upgrade your relationship through chatting.
Before you go on a date, it is best to prepare an event for the date, such as what purpose you must achieve on this date. For example, you can say to your girl before a date: "Tomorrow I will personally bring you my carefully selected necklace," or "Tomorrow I will personally peel shrimps for you and feed them to your mouth."</ p>
3. Jinno
If you want girls to feel happy and not tired during the date, then you must have slight physical contact, such as holding hands. On the road, help him hold a chair for her to sit down and so on. Or we can use previous events to set the stage, wearing a necklace and peeling shrimps.
It doesn’t matter if you don’t have physical contact during your date. You can give her a hug when you are about to leave. In short, don’t let the girl think you are malicious. It’s okay for the girl to enjoy the process of being with you. will reject you.
Pursuing a girl is actually a very systematic process. After you have the mindset to pursue a girl, dating is actually very simple.
