First impression (first impression) impression), is an important factor affecting the relationship development between boys and girls. Many times, the image of boys in girls' minds is not their own image, but the image that girls think they have. This is the psychological effect of preconceptions, and this first impression is often most profound during the first date.

Therefore, on the first date, a boy’s performance is very important, which often determines the subsequent development of the relationship: either it will be closer; or there will be no relationship. For this reason, boys should try their best to express themselves in the most attractive way on the first date.

1. Evaluations of others

When people are exposed to unknown things, it is easy to rely on the information provided by others. information to learn more. The same goes for getting to know someone. If someone says that you are a good person in front of a girl, then the girl will naturally view you in a positive light.

On a first date, it is difficult to get others to think highly of you, so arrange a wingman to ask for your help (you can ask for directions, borrow money, or You can ask a question), and use prepared responses in advance to achieve high praise from your wingman!

2. Contact Effect

Before a girl goes on a first date with you, most of her understanding of you is just a superficial taste. Therefore, on the first date, your appearance, appearance, conversation, demeanor, and temperament will all leave a deep impression on the girl.

A good contact effect will make girls feel your attraction, think about you, and never forget you. Therefore, the location of the first date should not be too ordinary, the topic of communication should not be too casual, and the atmosphere at the scene should be a bit charming.

3. Deviation of expectations

Before going on a first date with a girl, how does the girl feel about the date? There is an expectation for your performance. If your performance is lower than expectations, then girls are likely to be disappointed in you; if your performance is higher than girls' expectations, then girls will be very interested in you.

After understanding this principle, boys should understand the expected deviation between the image they show when chatting and the image they show when dating. If your chatting is too exaggerated, Self, then it will be easy to fall over on the first date.