Many boys think that if you are chasing a girl, you should contact her every day and have a sense of presence at all times. Especially after a date, you will always want to contact the girl frequently and chat with her, but is this method really correct?

1. Don’t do useless work

In order to talk to a girl, you say to her, "You So beautiful, like a fairy in the sky! "If you say this, it will only make the girl think that you are the most ordinary one among her many suitors, nothing special. So a polite thank you can send you off. Then there will be no future! Will girls be interested in you if you do this?

When you first become friends, you don’t have to rush to chat with her. You can also "lurk" around her for a period of time, carefully observe the contents of her circle of friends, and look for something that can make you different from other suitors. Only in this way can you stand out from the crowd and look so unique. Only then will the girl be interested in you and you can proceed.

When you see her circle of friends, you have to look for her hobbies, such as many photos of her and her friends. Then you can say, "It seems that we are kindred souls, we both have a happy heart, and we both love to travel."

Only if you "act nice" at first will she Will remember you. So, don’t say useless things, if you want to attract her, you must make yourself different.

2. Maintain a certain sense of mystery

Some people can talk and act freely when they are happy, as if they were old friends for many years. As the old saying goes, “When you talk to your sister. The more you talk, the more exposed you are to the world, allowing her to see right through you. "

For example:

"Today is a holiday, let's go out together!"

"You are very attractive to me. I can't forget when I see you. !I really want to see you, come out to see you tonight!”

The most direct manifestation of exposing your need is to talk to the girl incessantly or actively ask for a meeting; because of your behavior, you usually treat the girl Put on the pressure, and when she can't take it anymore, she'll just kick you out of her circle of friends.

But if you really want to date a girl, you want her to be yours. As the relationship progresses, you can find some white lies to "trick" this girl out.

　"You are so annoying that you can't get out of my head." I think if we meet, my brain won’t be so tired!”

This sentence is really beautiful. Although you want to see her, you don’t express it directly. Because you have just been together for a short time. , so you can’t expose your desires too muchclear. This requires a process to warm your feelings, and what you have to do now is to move forward steadily.