When many boys are dating girls, they always like to ask girls, "When are you free?", "What time is convenient?" and "What do you like to eat?" It seems that they respect girls and let girls decide everything. But in fact, girls don’t like to make decisions. Almost all of them only like to answer multiple-choice questions. If you ask a girl these questions, she will feel that you have no plan or intention. Let’s analyze how to deal with the date and location? Who decides?
1. Boys should bear the responsibility of dating
In fact, not only girls, most people don’t like to make choices, which consumes a lot of energy and takes risks (choosing If not good, you will face pressure). When dating, it is very normal and expected for boys to learn to take the initiative to take on some responsibilities. Of course, I'm not saying here that girls can't make their own choices, but that most decisions are made by boys.
2. Ask girls for their opinions
When making dating decisions, you may encounter unknown What does the other person like to play and eat. It doesn't matter. For example, you just need to ask: Do you have any taboos? After receiving no reply, you can confidently order your favorite food. Or ask the girl if there is anything she likes to eat and order it for her, or after you order, ask the girl if there is anything she wants to add.
3. Finalizing the appointment time
In addition, the most important point is to finalize the appointment time.
It is recommended to book a specific time directly. Of course, this requires some homework, such as browsing nearby Meituan in advance, and you can easily find it. Before the Internet, men of the previous generation had to run errands to navigate their surroundings. It's much more convenient now.
Men decide the dating process independently, which is a part that reflects the mentality of men. Especially for young boys, they need to take the initiative to shoulder the responsibility with their immature shoulders. It will grow up quickly if you carry it a few times.
Conclusions about dating:
1. Don’t ask girls where they like to go or what they like to eat. You Set it straight!
2. Don’t ask a girl when she is free, just tell her it’s Saturday at 18:00!
3. The above two items are correct in 99% of cases.
If at this time you still want to ask who will set the date and location? You tell the girl directly that you will pick her up from downstairs at 10 a.m. on Saturday, and then you will go shopping and eat hot pot together. Don't let them choose. What will they choose? They will take their time all day long. Just decide her death directly, whether she comes or not (laughs).
