Although many boys are usually very talkative, when it comes to dating girls, their mouths are glued together. They either can't find the topic, have various silences, or they don't know what to do after a few words. Continue. Don’t worry, the following examples will provide you with dating and chat strategies.
What should I do if I don’t know what to talk to a girl on a date?
1. Open questions
The biggest difference between face-to-face chatting and online chatting is timeliness. Your online chat gives you enough time to think about and refine your answers. Therefore, this kind of chat has a high error tolerance rate. It will naturally be much easier for you to deal with it, while chatting in person takes a lot less time to think, and when chatting, you have to pay attention to whether your eyes, expressions, and tone match the chat situation. Especially when two are not enough, and many restrictions are added to restrict it, you will definitely not be able to speak at will.
In fact, when dating a girl, if you don’t know what to talk about, it’s best to use open-ended questions to make the topic more malleable. Use open-ended questions. For example: What are your hobbies, what do you usually like to do, and what are your requirements for your partner? There are no fixed answers to such questions. When the other party answers, you can continue to talk about your own situation and find similarities to continue the conversation. This will open up the topic of conversation.
2. Pay attention and observe
In fact, it is normal to have a quiet chat when you first meet on a date. You don’t have to worry, just start the next topic.
During the cold period, you can pay more attention to everything around you to find topics to break the ice. For example, the weather, how girls are dressed, the surrounding environment of the date, etc. Anything you can capture can become a topic of conversation. For example, you and your goddess are eating in a restaurant, and you stay next door as a customer. He is a middle-aged man with a fat figure. You can think about it and see if there is anyone around you or in your life experience who is similar to this middle-aged man. For example, if he looks like your middle school teacher, you can use this as a topic and say to girls: I just saw this uncle sitting next door. Like my high school teacher, it seems that the person I was most afraid of at the time was that he was naughty at that time. , he often taught him to raise topics like this. It can bring your thoughts back to your student days and then extend them. Can’t you just say something harsh?
3. Observe words and expressions
Women are emotional and think When chatting with a girl, you need to focus on the details, especially when chatting in person. You also need to learn to observe the girl's emotions and think about her feelings from her perspective.
For example: A girl said, "I saw a lipstick while shopping yesterday. The color is very beautiful, but I don't know if it matches my style. Please help me take a look."
< p> What you need to do at this time is to grasp the details. In fact, girls don't want to hear your analysis of whether the lipstick color is beautiful or suitable for him, but they want to hear your approval of his vision to help him dispel his concerns. Then the correct reply should be "I think it's very good. Your picture definitely shows off your temperament. There happens to be a store of this lipstick nearby. I'll take you to try it later."< p> When a woman asks you to make a decision, she often has an idea in her heart. You only need to observe the girl's demeanor and understand her feelings, and you can grasp her little thoughts.4. Topic extension method
As the name suggests, it is to expand and extend a topic, and finally reach the topic A steady stream of effects. The key point of this method is that you must have rich imagination and divergent thinking, seize the information provided in the girl's topic, and use it to expand the topic. This way you don’t have to worry about running out of topics to talk about.
For example: If you talk to a girl about eating, you can extend it to the topic of eating, and I will think of the twice-cooked pork made by my mother.
In this way, you can explain your dietary preferences and let the doctor know more about you, or you can also say to girls, because recently. I have been losing weight and working out, so I pay more attention to my diet. If I accidentally reveal my living status, I will leave a good impression on girls.
