Recently, a brother told me that girls reply to messages immediately, but they have never been able to ask her out. What is going on? Do you still need to continue chatting with girls and chasing girls? What should we do in this situation?
What should I do if a girl replies immediately but can’t make a date?
1. You are short of a chance to date
In fact, this situation is like if you go When you clip a doll in the mall, you can see that the doll is waving to you through the screen, but you go to buy a lot of coins, but every time you go there you miss a few, and in the end you spend a lot of money to catch it. Then I realized it wasn’t worth it.
In fact, it is really not worth chasing someone for a long time without catching up with her. If you need to invest a lot of energy and money to catch up with a girl, I advise you to do what you can. When I hear this, some little brother will definitely say, just say that I can buy it at this price, why should I waste my time and feelings?
Brother, this may be the real reason why you have been single for many years. If this is the stage when you are chasing girls, then you guys A period of investment is the time you spend together, it is the process of two people getting along, and it is also the opportunity for you to teach her how to catch dolls, so how many have you caught? Or is it that you can’t make a date at all, and you haven’t even had a chance to seize it yet? Wake up.
Girls’ messages are replied instantly, what’s the difference? Maybe it's an opportunity, maybe there's something wrong with your invitation, and you don't know how to seize the opportunity and ask a girl out. Maybe you will realize it later and think, oh, that's right, I might have bought a doll instead. It doesn’t require a lot of money, so why bother? In fact, whether there is drama is like trying to catch a baby. If there is no drama, there will be so many dramas. Across the screen, it is often an illusion. No matter how good you are in online chatting, if you can't date, it is fake. It may be If you don't invest enough money, or your skills are not proficient enough, you will naturally not be able to date girls.
2. You did not upgrade the relationship in time
Some boys, although chatting with girls, did not pay attention to grasp the rhythm in time, resulting in a long chat. Embarrassing, then you didn’t give the girl the feeling she wanted. The girl will naturally think that you may be a bit straight, very boring, and may even feel that she has no interest in you. Then the girl will slowly start to be cold towards you, and you ask her out. She didn't want to come out either.
In this case, you have to upgrade the relationship when the girl has a crush on you at the beginning. As long as the girl has a crush on you, , will not refuse you when faced with your invitation.
Finally, you are now in a situation where girls text you back instantly but can’t get a date, but you don’t know where to start to change or improve. Come to me to give you a guide to chasing girls, starting from today, step by stepAs a high-value man, it is naturally more comfortable to be chased by a girl than to try your best to please her, don't you think?