Nowadays, many young men lack experience in chatting with girls. Therefore, when dating the girl they like, they do not know how to chat. It is easy for some embarrassing situations to occur, especially on the first date. The most embarrassing thing is Too cold! Talk to a girl like this on the first date. 3 steps to make a girl miss you!
1. Talk about topics that you are curious about and that girls are good at
On a first date, apart from mutual greetings and familiarity, it seems that there is nothing to talk about. In fact, this is just a cocoon of people who don’t know how to talk. .
People who don’t know how to chat are just afraid that the topic they raise will not interest the other party.
In fact, the content of the chat can only improve her mood when it is related to the other party.
In other words, you should talk about topics that you are curious about and that girls are good at.
In this way, the girl can easily answer your questions, because of course she can have a lot to say about the topics she is good at.
For example, a girl likes to play Honor of Kings, and the hero she is good at using is Daji. You can talk to the girl about how to develop the mid lane, how to avoid ganks, and how to deal with damage in team battles.
2. Expand the topic by asking questions
When dating, many boys are always not confident enough, so Can't let go when chatting.
This is obviously not conducive to performance during a date, and also leads to a greatly increased chance of a cold start.
When there is no topic to chat about, boys can expand the chatterability of the topic by asking questions.
But this way of asking questions is not for you to "check your household registration", but to find topics to ask questions.
For example, on a first date, you can ask many questions, such as "What do you like to do on weekends?" "You are in such good shape, do you usually work out?" "Which of these dishes do you like best?"
Your question will usually receive a reply from the girl. After getting the reply, you can start a series of in-depth chats based on her response.
For example, if a girl replies to you "I like to watch movies on weekends", you can chat with her about movies; if she replies to you "I do yoga occasionally", you can talk to her about sports, fitness, and sports; if she replies " "My favorite thing is steamed Wuchang fish", you can talk to her about food, cooking, etc.
3. Capture topic keywords
Many young guys don’t know how to chat with girls. In fact, they just don’t. Know how to respond to topics raised by girls!
The key to replying to girls’ topics is to respond sensitively and accuratelyCapture topic keywords.
Girls are better at chatting. A sentence she says usually has the possibility of extending the topic or some hints. However, many young men choose to ignore it in a daze.
For example, on a first date, when a girl says something like "The weather is pretty good today, so I wore a skirt to go out", is the key word in this sentence "weather" or "skirt"? ?
If you know how to chat, of course you can talk about skirts with girls, and take the opportunity to praise the girl’s aesthetics, figure, etc.
