Some boys can get a date with a girl over a meal of spicy hotpot, while some boys can’t get their sweetheart after a meal of Haidilao. Dating itself is a very romantic activity. If you don't know the skills of dating, it is actually normal for you to be rejected by girls. Obviously, many boys date girls in a cliché three-step sequence: eating, shopping, and watching movies. What seems to be intentional is actually boring, especially for girls who date frequently.
How to ask out a girl
Some dating novices ask out girls like this: Are you free on Sunday? ?Can I treat you to dinner or shopping? This question seems too childish in the minds of girls, and involves too many questions: time, willingness, and date methods. There are infinite reasons for a girl to refuse, and even if she wants to, she can refuse duplicitously.
From a girl’s perspective, the worst thing for a boy is rejection, and the worst thing for a girl is harassment, and this kind of harassment has a huge impact on girls. Therefore, girls sometimes show an ambiguous attitude when choosing whether to go on a date.
Reasons for dating
Many boys worry that they will be rejected if they date a girl, and they always hesitate to date. Or you may not have confidence when making an appointment. This is the reason for the lack of dating. If Xiaoyu came to date a girl, he would say, "Recently, Chengdu ×× opened a Japanese restaurant. My friend said it was delicious. I remember you said you like to eat Japanese food before. Let's go eat on the weekend!" This is how the date goes. The reason will be very natural, and it will be easy for girls to accept it.
Reasons for being rejected on dates
Some straight men asked girls about their bare-face photos as soon as they added WeChat. I asked the girl out to meet him the next day. Such a wrong approach will definitely not work. Reasons why girls refuse to date: Who are you? How old are you? What are you like? If these questions are not determined, the boy's invitation will definitely be rejected by the girl.
Therefore, dating should not be rushed, but should be done step by step. The correct approach is to first let the two people get to know each other and establish a certain emotional foundation before trying to date.
