The purpose of chatting on WeChat is to invite a girl. However, sometimes even though they chat well with girls, they just can’t get a date. At this time, many boys don’t know what to do. In fact, this is because the timing of your invitation is wrong. As long as you master the correct timing, it is easy to ask her out. So when should we ask girls out to play?
Preparation before dating
1. Keep in touch and gain trust
If you just met and you ask to meet as soon as you arrive, the girl will definitely refuse it directly. Because she doesn't know you at all, how can she determine whether you are a bad person? So first chat with her more and build a certain amount of trust, so that when you ask for a date, she will not refuse in a hurry.
2. Make her interested in you
If you ask "What are you doing" every time you chat, and she always replies "Hehe" and "I'm going to take a shower." Then when you invite her, she will most likely not come out. Only if she shows interest in you while chatting will she be able to agree to meet. Therefore, interest is the key to invitation and the most important prerequisite.
Specific invitation steps
1. Preliminary test and vague invitation.
First of all, we can put forward the concept of invitation without determining the specific time and place. The purpose is to test her attitude towards your invitation. Assuming she doesn't resent your invitation, you can take it a step further. For example, "I heard that XX has a new dessert shop. Do you want to try it out and see how it tastes?" "I heard that a new movie was released recently and it has a good reputation. Let's go and see it together when we have time?" /p>
2. Determine the time for the invitation
After determining the attitude, we should know whether she is disgusted or looking forward to your invitation. The next step is to find a suitable date. The preparation is to inquire about the girl's working hours, see when she usually takes vacation, and whether she has any plans for that day.
It is worth noting that the date should not be too early or too late. If it's too early, you won't have enough time for girls to dress up; if it's too late, it will look like you have ulterior motives. In addition, don’t let the intervals between invitations be too long, otherwise the girl’s expectations for you will be exhausted.
3. Confirm the date and formally invite
After the above two points are confirmed, you can A formal invitation has been issued. I believe she will not reject you at this time, because she already has expectations for you and has time to see you.
When you have a formal date, you must not be late, and you must also pay attention to your dress. Regardless of whether the girl comes to meet or not, you must keep in touch with her and not show dissatisfaction. When chatting,It's best to keep a girl interested in you so she doesn't regret it temporarily.
I believe that after reading this article, you also know how to use WeChat to date girls. If you are too timid, girls will feel uninterested; if you push too hard, girls will feel scared. Pay attention to the timing and boldly ask her out.
