Holding hands is a necessary step when pursuing a girl to upgrade your relationship. If you can hold a girl's hand on the first date, it will be very conducive to the upgrade of the relationship. So how should you hold a girl’s hand on a first date? Here are some ways to hold a girl’s hand on a first date.

1. Eye contact

Eyes can send messages, and through the transmission of energy, they can also cause the other party to Emotional response. There are several types of eyes: confident, friendly, persistent, melancholy, helpless, evasive, and joking. On different occasions, we have to show different looks.

If you want to make a girl feel good during a date, eye contact is also very important. The moment you look away from the girl, you are showing your social skills. We need to show the first two types of eyes. Message: Confident and friendly.

But be careful, don’t stare at the person, and start a normal conversation with the other person immediately after making eye contact.

2. Pretend to touch unintentionally

Pretending means accidentally touching a girl, this kind of unconsciousness Touching so that the other party does not understand your purpose, but touching accidentally or in a very friendly manner, can help the girl gradually adapt to your touch and bring them closer to each other.

For example:

1) If you have physical contact with the other person inadvertently, you can say sorry to the girl for accidentally touching you. This will easily make the girl put down her guard. .

　2) Rough and playful play during interaction: When she behaves well, you can pat her shoulder or pat her head gently and say to her: You are so cute. When you are having fun, you can show her her palm and play some interactive games with her. (Get closer to girls and increase your goodwill).

　3) Protection of her body in public places. Including crossing the road, bus, subway and other crowded places to clear the way for her to form a protective circle. (Let girls feel safe).

3. Hand-holding routine

On the first date, as long as you do the above two points, The comfort level between you and the girl has reached a sufficient level. At this time, you can use some small tricks to make your attempt to hold hands not appear so deliberate, and you can hold her hand naturally.

For example:

1)

Boys: Do you know how you held hands with someone for the first time when you were a child?

Girls :have no idea.

Boys: Hold up your little thumb (to show her that you are looking at her).

If the girl agrees, then next.

Boy: Do you know how she was held in junior high school? (Ask her to hold out her middle three fingers and hold her).

Boy: You should know how to hold hands in high school (hold her hand naturally).

　2)

You hook your right index finger and swing it back and forth, and ask the girl to guess what it is. It doesn’t matter whether she can answer it or not.

Girl: What is this?

Boy: While wiggling his index finger, tell the girl: This is a seahorse.

Girl: Okay.

Ask the girl to extend her index finger, hook your index finger on the girl's index finger, imitate the movement of the seahorse, and ask her what it is.

Girls: What is it?

Boys: These are two seahorses kissing.

He looked at the girl with a smile, intertwined his fingers with her, why did she do this?

The girl was puzzled.

Boy: Said gently, this is ten seahorses hugging each other.