If you ask a girl out but she rejects you, at most you will be a little disappointed and feel that the girl doesn’t like you yet. If a girl agrees to your invitation and when you arrive at the date, the girl does not show up. Instead, she tells you on WeChat that she is not coming or that you cannot contact her at all, which means that the girl has failed to make the appointment. Usually boys will be a little angry in this situation. If a girl agrees first and then breaks the date, can I ask her out again?

1. Analyze the psychology of girls not wanting to go on a date

Generally speaking, there are two kinds of psychology of girls not wanting to date:

1. A girl hangs you hard to get you to increase your pursuit of her. Difficulty, because many girls firmly believe in the theory of "the harder it is to catch up, the more they will be cherished". They don't want to be easily chased by boys, so they will let it go for a while and accept it for a while. If you agree to your invitation today and then reject it tomorrow, you are ready to give up and she will treat you again. Be proactive and leave you scratching your head. In this way, you have been carrying the girl to mobilize her emotions while she is playing hard to get.

2. Girls are not interested in you, but since you haven’t made it clear, it’s hard to refuse your invitation explicitly. She can tactfully express her rejection by saying "I agreed but I won't go". I hope you can understand her hint. In this case, the girl's attitude towards you is also very cold and her replies in chat are not positive, so it's easy to tell.

In fact, if a girl breaks an appointment, boys need to consider something else: Even if a girl breaks an appointment because something really happens and she can’t leave, then why didn’t she tell you in advance, but instead broke the appointment without saying a word (either it was true) forgot). It can only mean that you are really not that important in a girl’s heart right now!

2. Should a girl agree first and then break the date and then ask her out again?

1. No matter what the girl’s psychology is for breaking the date, it is recommended that you don’t ask her out again for the time being. If she subsequently stops contacting you, it’s basically the second possibility mentioned above. If a girl takes the initiative to contact you after breaking the date, it means that she still wants to flirt with you, which means she does not completely reject you. But you need to judge another question: Does she take the initiative to flirt with you because she wants to fall in love with you, or is she lonely and wants to develop you as a backup?

This is difficult to judge. Even if you confess your love and she refuses, you can't judge that the truth is "she doesn't like you." Or "She likes you, but she just doesn't want to be chased by you so easily." The reason why many boys become spare tires and spend several years with an impossible girl is precisely because they misunderstand a girl's "she doesn't like you" as "she likes me, but she doesn't want me to chase her too easily."

What should we do?

2. Here, the second suggestion I give you if a girl refuses to date you is that if she comes back to flirt with you, set a time limit for yourself, be it three months, half a year or one year. Confess your love as soon as the time limit is up, if she doesn't accept being in a relationship with you, give up immediately, no matter how she teases you later, ignore her, just pretend you don’t know this person. This period allows you to stop losses in time.

Finally, if I were you, I would give up now when a girl refuses to date. Because an agreement can actually test a person's character, and if a girl breaks an appointment, it means that she is a person who breaks her promise and is not worth paying for. Even among friends, if we make an appointment to go out and she randomly changes the date again and again, I will stay away from her. Boys must also have principles and bottom lines in the process of chasing girls. Love themselves first before they can get the love of others.