When dating, many boys attach too much importance to girls and regard girls as goddesses. They are extremely nervous about everything they say and do, for fear that they will not perform well and leave a bad impression on girls during the date. However, they do not know that this This kind of "nervous" performance will make girls even more dissatisfied, because when they are nervous, it is difficult to be attractive in the eyes of girls!
What to do if you are nervous about dating a girl
1. Release the tension
Nervousness comes from the fear of the unknown.
When you are nervous when dating a girl, it is because you want to please the girl, but you are also afraid of the unknown - you are not familiar with the girl, and you are not sure what words and deeds can make her happy.
Therefore, dating nervousness cannot be fundamentally solved by self-confidence, because the unknown is the unknown and cannot be easily overcome unless your emotional perception is too imbecile.
At this time, we have to mention the three-piece date set-eating, shopping, and watching movies. These are all good ways to release tension. These daily behaviors can be easily adapted to and enjoyed. In it, the tension of dating gradually fades away.
At the same time, you can also talk to girls about some of your current behavior-food, taste, personal thoughts, etc.
In summary, you can release the tension in dating by deepening your understanding of girls and their dating behavior.
2. Actively adjust the atmosphere
During a date, not only you will be nervous, but the girl will also be nervous .
This is all caused by the lack of dominance in dating, such as awkward conversations and not knowing what to do next...
I don’t know what to say or what to do. What, such a date is bound to be prone to tension. Being bored and not knowing how to solve this boredom can easily lead to you being hesitant and hesitant during the date.
Therefore, if you need to avoid this kind of nervousness during a date, you must make a plan, a backup plan, and an emergency plan for the date to deal with the cold situation during the date.
Therefore, if there is an accident during a date, you can also take proactive measures to adjust the awkward atmosphere in a timely manner, effectively avoiding the possibility of tension.
3. Change the dating scene
For example, you have been tired of being in the coffee shop, and suddenly you are chatting. If the topic is old, you might as well change the dating scene and suggest going to the movies, going shopping, or taking a walk in the park.
The change of scene can give you and the girl a buffer time to calm down the tension, and can also help you find new words to chat.Questions, or provide scene roles - such as swimming, mountain climbing, playing badminton...
Changing the dating scene can also help you find the best way to get along with girls, so as to promote the relationship more efficiently. level development and successfully promoted to the emotional level.
