Generally speaking, girls are very passive, passively accepting boys' pursuits and passively accepting boys' invitations. Very few girls will take the initiative to ask out boys or chat with boys. So what happens if a girl takes the initiative to ask you out? Let’s analyze it for everyone. Do you know what it means when a girl takes the initiative to ask you out? At least I don’t hate you!
1. Girls take the initiative to ask you out to show their gratitude
Some girls are more self-conscious and will take the initiative to ask you out for dinner before asking you for help. This way, when she asks you for help, There will be no psychological burden. Some girls may take the initiative to ask you out for dinner to express their gratitude after asking you for help. Or maybe you invited a girl to dinner last time, so she invited her back again this time because she didn’t want to owe you a favor. No matter what, in this case, the girl takes the initiative to ask you out just to express her gratitude. It cannot be said that she has a crush on you, but just expresses her gratitude to you as a friend. Whether they can develop into boyfriend and girlfriend depends on your follow-up. Whether the behavior or pursuit can impress her. (At least don’t make her feel disgusted)
2. A girl takes the initiative to ask you out because she likes you
Some girls may be more proactive and have a crush on you, but you are more passive. She feels that instead of waiting for you to wake up and then take the initiative to pursue her, it is better for her to take the initiative, so she will take the initiative to ask you out. This is also because she is afraid of being with you. You miss. Of course, if you want to tell whether a girl likes you or just wants to be friends with you, relying on the girl to take the initiative to ask you out is not enough. You have to consider other factors, such as daily chatting, getting along, and A condition of two people themselves.
No matter what, if a girl takes the initiative to ask you out, go out and take a look at some of the small details of her relationship with you to see if you have misunderstood her. If a girl keeps taking the initiative but you don't get any feedback, she may not come to you for several days, maybe because she is afraid that you will find her annoying, or maybe she doesn't want to like you anymore (maybe just a temporary thought), because She likes being tired when there is no response, and she doesn't like herself feeling tired like this.
3. When a girl takes the initiative to ask you out, she treats you as a friend
Sometimes there is also friendship between men and women Yes, if a girl thinks you are a good person to get along with (the feeling here is more of a friend), so she asks you out as a friend, this has no special meaning. After all, friends eat together and date together. It's not a strange thing.
Summary: If a girl takes the initiative to ask you out, it means that in her impression, at least she is not an annoying person to you. I have to believe that as a girl, no one likes to hang out with people she hates. She would be more comfortable staying at home alone.
